Guys, did you know that you didn’t have to look like these guys to score? Or even be as rich as them to be able to woo ladies around you? There are are so many other ways to be successfully attractive. Below are 8 of the many tips that will help you gain ground. =)
- Date planning, creatively
- Be a gentleman
- Keep to your words
- Pay attention
- Looking is communicating
- Be instinctive
- Pick up lines
- Be generous on compliments
It is majorly important how you plan your date. Don’t go for the traditional dinner and movie plan. Choose something different and cool yet still comfortable for the both of you. Put in the effort to come up with something memorable and romantic. I’ve scheduled for a full 1 and a 1/2 hour body massage for two, watch a philharmonic orchestra, fly kites and even once went for dessert at an expensive revolving restaurant in my city. My strategy is to have fun with her everytime she sees me. She will definitely want to keep on seeing me.
I only learned to open doors for a woman and pull her chair before she sits on my 4th date! After that, only did I know that ladies appreciate it when I do those things. I was told by my date that she felt like a lady and those little things really did count. If she feels like a queen, then you are king.
When I say that I’ll come pick a girl up by 7, I’ll definitely be there regardless rain or shine. Same goes to calls. If I say I will call by tomorrow night, I will. Being unpunctual and breaking your words will only protrude a sense of unreliability. Real ladies will want to be respected before being around you. Play games with her and end up playing minesweeper yourself.
Women love talking about themselves. Make her do most of the talking. It will make her happy and you will know better about her. Ask her about her favourites. What kind of food does she like? What is she good at? What’s her favourite ice cream flavour? Favourite cartoon character? Colour? These are important points to remember for the future to help in choosing presents and surprises. She’ll love you for that. She’ll sense your clear interest in her instead of just pure lust for her looks.
When you are dancing, eating, or just alking with her, make as much eye contact as possible. Don’t look around the room even if you are shy, or there is a group of A class ladies sitting at 2 o’clock. Your date will feel insecure when she notices your eyes moving all around the room. By paying attention to her eyes, the response is interpreted as ‘I am genuinely interested in being here with you’ and ‘I only have eyes for you’. Once she notices, you will find her more responsive and eventually open up to you.
Be natural. Take control of yourself, not her. On the first date, if she mentions about how she enjoyed flying kites when she was young, plan a surprise this weekend to take her to the park and fly kites. If she mentiones a lot about romantic environments, bring her for a walk by the beach after dinner, go bowling, go get her her favourite ice cream flavour. Being spontaneous and acting on your inner guidance shows that you are brave and act on impulse to do things that really make you enjoy life. Period.
Flirt. This will widen your horizon on women. Be fun and playful. You’ll learn to like approaching a woman to blast out corny pick up lines like, ‘If I flip a coin, what are my chances of getting head?’ or ‘Your name must be Mickey, cause you’re so fine’. Keep a straight face and don’t smile. If she smiles at your jokey pick up line, you’re there, bro. Google ‘pick up lines’ and learn.
Ladies of all sorts love compliments. That is why they take hours to get ready before going out on a date. A lot of time will be spent on picking the right dress, the right hair do down to the right hand bag and shoes. So guys, notice their appearance and pick out one thing that stands out. ‘I really like your choice of necklace. It matches your earrings and sparkling eyes’ or ‘Those shoes make your legs look gorgeous. Try it and you will both be amazed.
Lines That Are Good
Collection of pick up lines